Stephanie had asked me to explain my "minuscule" portion sizes and, after seeing the word "minuscule" I felt compelled to do so. The idea is to take less than you normally would and put it on your plate. For example, if you normally would have a whole chicken breast, a whole baked potato, and a large helping of some other side, then start with eating half of what you normally would. Use a small plate. Research has shown that over the years, our dinner plates have grown by 2-3 inches in diameter. If you see a plate that size with small amounts of food on it, you're going to think you don't have enough on your plate. But by using a salad plate, which is the old size that dinner plates used to be, you will find that you get just enough to eat. It's not really that you're eating minuscule amounts, you're just taking less and finding that it's enough.
Dr. Clower's book goes into it much better than I can and in a fun, friendly voice, too. Here is an example of a day on Dr. Clower's plan which was part of a course I took offered on his website:
Breakfast: Target time 15-20 mins
2 egg frittata with onion and garlic
whole wheat toast with butter
small glass of juice
Lifestyle tip of the meal: Wake up 30 minutes early. Sit in the peace of your kitchen to begin your day with your partner, paper, or favorite cup of coffee.
Lunch: Target time (15 minutes)
Open faced tuna sandwich on whole wheat toast, topped with a thin slice of sharp cheddar cheese, small spinach salad with tomatoes and raspberry vinaigrette.
1/2 pint of chilled whole milk
Dessert: Target time 10 minutes
One square of rich dark chocolate, about "two thumbs" in size.
Ender: target time 20 minutes
For the ender sip on a small cup of coffee or tea.
Lifestyle tip of the meal: Estimate the size of half your sandwich and resolve to finish with only that half after 7 minutes or so.
Snack:Target time 15 minutes
Handful of unsalted nuts (brazil, almonds, cashews) approx 10
Dinner;
Main target Time 20 minutes
Tilapia baked in olive oil and crisp white wine with capers and onions.
Garlic green beans (5-10)
Rosemary red potatoes (3-4 quarters)
1 glass pinot grigio or similar
1 glass water
Dessert Target Time 10 minutes
Creme Brulee in a ramekin
Ender: Target time 10 minutes
End with a cup of hot herbal tea or cocoa
Lifestyle tip of the meal: Set the table tonight, chill the wine, set out the candles.
You can see that the whole idea is for the meal to be an experience, not just shoveling food in one's mouth as quickly as possible. It does call for some common sense, which is something I have been having a little trouble with. It's easy in the beginning to go crazy with the things you're allowed to eat. That's something I definitely have to watch because the plan is also about learning how to balance the meal. Lean protein like fish and chicken are better choices than red meat, which is ok to eat once in a while. Don't drown things in rich sauces and butter, let them highlight the dish that you've prepared.
I hope this makes sense. I cannot recommend more strongly that you get your hands on a copy of this book. Amazon is selling used copies for $1 and some change for goodness sake! I just ordered a copy of the newest version, which I've heard is similar to the original but, I have to see for myself. :) Hopefully it will be here this weekend and I will be able to let you know.
Use small plates.
Take bites no larger than the end of your thumb, chipmunk cheeks are a no-no.
Take less than usual - amounts that might make you think you'll need seconds.
Eat slowly, converse with those around you, savor the flavors of the meal.
Use nice silverware, linens, and glasses. Every meal is good enough for the the good stuff.
Put your fork down between bites and don't put a new bite in until the first is completely chewed and gone.
You really are what you eat so use the best, whole, nutritious ingredients possible. I hope this made things a little bit clearer. If not, please let me know. I'll be happy to try and explain it better!